Is It Worth It?
Is it worth it to:
1. Start all over for Love.
2. Choose Love over money.
3. Lose friends over Love.
4. Change your lifestyle to accommodate Love.
5. Let Love get it’s way
Is it worth it to make life changing sacrifices in order to make Love happy?
But you can’t lose yourself in Love.
So where do you draw the line?
15 comments:
i'd prolly change my lifestyle (a lil lol) to accomodate love...
if the love is the RIGHT kind of love, you wont have to change. you can just BE.
-KB
if the love is recproicated, yes, if not NO....welcome back
I think if two people are happy with each other, and are with each other then yes I'd do it in a heartbeat. Love is the greatest.
But if it's not anywhere in that neighborhood then I can't fucks with it. Love will f*ck you up. lol.
ive never experiencedlove in that form.. so i cant really answer.. but its def something i ponder from time to time, if im willing to sacrifice certain extremes
I MADE A COUPLE CHANGES FOR LOVE. EVEN MOVED TO ANOTHER CITY TO BE WITH MY BOO AT THE TIME. BUT IT DIDNT WORK OUT. IM NOT MAD ABOUT IT BECAUSE THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON.
"if the love is the RIGHT kind of love, you won't have to change. you can just BE."-KB ****I CO-SIGN 1000%****
*M*E*L*
ive made changes for love.....
i cant say i will never do it again but it sure will be hard to go through it again!
but love is something that you have to make changes for eachother in order for things to go right
**welcome back**
@Karrie B: Exactly. & that's the Good Real love.
@Torrance: I feel you. It has to be 50/50. Thanks :)
@Don: LOL yes, love can hurt so good.
@Swag: It can be a scary thought @ times, expecially when you're in the middle of the experience.
@Kiya: You're a brave chic (We have to talk).
@Honey Be: Ms. B was on point.
@The Flyyest: Yup, compromises and sacrafies are the keys to help make it last.
@The Flyyest: & Thanks 4 the welcome back :)
True love... wouldn't make you have to make those types of decisions... or make you you choose one over the other. That's how you know when it's truly love.
agreeing with eb. love wouldn't make you choose, but it's even better when both parties decide to make changes for each other
Wow...Chrys C. I like this post it makes me ponder. I think their has to be balance in a relationship. For me I can't see myself sacrifacing too much if the feeling is NOT mutual.
If we both felt the same way then yeah I'd sacrifice within reason. These questions are kinda hard I guess it all depends!
@Eb and Jadore: I agree with you guys to a certain degree. True love should NEVER make you have to choose. But unfortunately there are certain situations that might come up and hard life changing decisions have to be made. Which leaves you in the middle of ‘should I, for us’ or ‘Should I, for me’.
@Wordaholic: There defiantly have to be a balance. The sacrifice has to be 50/50. He or She should be willing to put as much at stake as you would/will.
To answer my own question, I think it is worth it.
It’s worth it if the intentions are not selfish, and you feel in your heart that the love is real and it feels like it’s the right thing to do.
You only live once, and it's a live and learn situation.
My best advice for a situation like this is to pray on it.
hmm great post.
have to think about this and come back.
but yes, i have changed my lifestyle (a little) to accommodate love.
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